Timing is Everything For Guys

Does he have all his ducks in a row? This should be one of the first questions you should secretly assess on a first date (without making it super obvious, of course!)

Does he have his career and goals in place, is he seeking a long term relationship currently?

Once you have this figured out, dating will be so much easier, and less hearts will be broken, I promise!

The dating scene right now seems so complex with so little connections forming and lasting. 

The issue is not necessarily the lack of connection, it's that 

Timing is everything for men, and until they are ready, nothing love-wise can fully form. 

You may begin thinking it's not worth putting in all this effort into dating, and to a certain extent that is true.

Don't invest yourself, or pour your heart into dating relationships until the right relationship is ready and is also giving back to you. 

Focus on who you are as a person currently, who you want to be. Your dreams and goals should be the priority right now. 

If you really like a man, and his mind seems focused elsewhere, say on building his career, home, other dating opportunities, let him go; don't chase him. He won't be ready for a relationship with you or anyone else, no matter how perfect you would be for him.

Give it time, and he may come back around when things are in place for him in his life; if not, there will be another man that will have all his ducks in a row and will be ready for the kind of life you want to share.