How to Be the Right Person
The traits we wish to have in another, should be the traits we exhibit in ourselves, and a lot of this requires self-introspection and understanding of our true needs and expectations. Sometimes we seek to fill a void, and often times this leaves us even more empty and confused if we don't fill the void properly. We can sometimes seek to fill our needs with temporary happiness, through materialistic or tangible things; but we should really fill it with what we truly need. Our pressing needs can range from not feeling loved, feeling lonely, an ache for love, for connection, for happiness, and various other feelings. A girl I know, Scarlet, once told me she was aching for that feeling of connection and love from another person. Her schedule was busy and her job often didn't allow much time for building connections. Once she joined a group that focused on her hobby of reading, she met other close friends who fulfilled that need of connection, and she no longer sought...