What Men Often Seek First
Men are the traditional pursuers in dating, and intrinsically have a stronger desire than women to chase their objects of affection. This is an intrinsic, natural and also respectable trait because this trait will cause a man to deeply protect the woman they care for, and go to extreme lengths to do so. They will walk through fire and danger to make sure those whom they deeply care about are safe, and will brave many circumstances and situations to ensure their safety, once they are committed. Although very respectable, there is a side of this trait of pursuing that women need to be aware of for their own hearts. Men, being the pursuers naturally, can become extremely focused on pursuing sexually. Women not having this strong of a driving factor, can often feel that sex is about emotions and wanting to be closer to a person; but men see it completely differently. For men, it's not about coming together in a closer, emotional way, it's a purely driven way that is abou...